….because you’ve already hitched:
“Thanks for asking but I’m already in a commitment I cherish very much.”
….because you have something important scheduled that day:
“I’d love to go out with you, but I have a previous engagement. How about another time?”
….because you cant see a future with him:
“Thanks, but I really don’t feel a connection between us.”
-be gentle, but firm. Make it clear that you’re not being pakipot.
- you don’t need to apologize because you’re not doing anything wrong.
- Always tell him the truth. It may seem harsh to turn down a guy, but unless you tell him the real truth, he may bug you forever.source: Seventeen Mag